Tomorrow's Life Coach
Volume 8 Issue 4 – April, 2009

In This Issue:

Tomorrow's Life Coach (TLC) is a monthly online journal from the Institute for Life Coach Training (ILCT) that nourishes the intellect, intuition and inspiration of the personal and business coaching community.


Pat's Ponderings - Becoming a Consciously Competent Coach

Many people who have moved into the coaching profession the last several years, say things like "I have always been a coach" or " I am a natural coach." That may be true in one sense, but being good at what you think is coaching is not the same as being consciously competent, nor does it make you a professional coach. After all, if you take a first aid course or learn CPR, you certainly are not a competent emergency medical technician.

In the introduction to my book Total Life Coaching with my co-author Lloyd Thomas, we stated:

"Life coaching is more than a collection of techniques and skills. It is more than something you do. Life coaching reflects who you are. It is your authentic being in action within a specific relationship. Who you are, your personhood, is the basis for effective life coaching. Coaching is rooted in your being, not in your personal abilities. You coach because of who you are.

If you are reading this, you may have already received training as a "helping professional" (counselor, therapist, coach, pastor, teacher, manager or supervisor). Or you may be simply interested in the profession of coaching. Or you may be someone who wants to make changes in his or her life

Life coaching is more about "being a coach" than "doing coaching."

Regardless of the personal coaching techniques or skills you may have learned, you may still not be the most effective coach you can become. We define effective coaching as authentic self-expression in the coach/client relationship so that you catalyze the clients' manifestation of their own desired outcomes. Coach training usually focuses on the learning of "techniques" to influence the behavior of clients. Total Life Coaching addresses such questions as: From whom do these coaching techniques emanate? What makes a good coach great? How can coaches incorporate techniques into their personalities, so they authentically contribute to their clients' well-being? What lessons, taken from human history, can be learned by coaches and clients, to realize their potential as professionals and as people? How might these lessons be effectively and authentically coached? How authentic are you as a life coach? How catalytic of others' development is your self-expression? How effectively do your clients' attain the results they really want?

We usually take for granted the human skills of learning and creating. We rarely study them or consciously choose to strengthen them. We may teach a specific content and expect the student will learn it. We may teach "creativity" and expect to produce new ideas and outcomes. But we fail to teach the individual the exact way he/she learns. We don't teach people how to discover who they really are. We don't teach them:

  • self-awareness
  • living within their own integrity
  • spirituality and life-purpose
  • social/relationship skills
  • how to achieve their potential
  • how to contribute their unique gifts to society
  • how to creatively benefit from change
  • how to use their personal strengths to overcome their weaknesses

In other words, we don't teach/coach how to design and implement a fulfilling life!

Life is continuously providing us with information or "messages."  When we do not listen, the messages become lessons. When we do not learn, the lessons become problems. When we don't address the problems, they become crises. When crises go unresolved, they create chaos in our lives. Great coaches seek to live on the levels of messages and lessons, not waiting for them to become problems, crises and reactions to chaos. They also strive to have their clients live at that same level."

To become a consciously competent coach, you do need to not only DO coaching but EMBODY coaching. And you do need coach specific training and mentoring from an ICF accredited school like ILCT. Training with us and membership in the ICF as the professional organization representing coaching worldwide will grant you the 5 c's for a successful business and life as a coach:

  1. Community of coaches
  2. Competence of training
  3. Confidence as a coach
  4. Conferences for continual learning and
  5. Credibility for what you do and who you are.


Pat

Patrick Williams Ed.D., MCC
Chief Energizing Officer, ILCT
Department Chair, Professional Coaching, International University of Professional Studies
Author: Becoming a Professional Life Coach. Therapist as Life Coach, Total Life Coaching,
Law and Ethics in Coaching

Recipient of Global Visionary Fellowship for Non Profit www.CoachingTheGlobalVillage.org
Biography


Monthly

ILCT-CPH Teleconference - Claim Trends

Please join Dr. Patrick Williams, President and CEO of the Institute for Life Coach Training, author of Law and Ethics in Coaching, and Sara Duiven, Marketing Manager of CPH & Associates on March 18th for a discussion focused on Claim Trends.

Learn about:

  1. The areas of mental health practice that may increase exposure to a claim or suit.
  2. How these trends relate to the growing coaching field.

Date: Thursday, April 23, 2009
Time: 2:00 p.m. Eastern/New York/Toronto time

Fee: no charge (long distance charges may apply)

REGISTER NOW


Pat's Coaching Forum - New Opportunities for Health and Wellness Coaching

Join Dr. Patrick Williams and Jim Strohecker, CEO and Co-founder of HealthWorld Online (www.healthy.net) to learn more about coaching and New Opportunities for Health and Wellness Coaching based on the U.S. Administration's new directions in health care.

The topics to be discussed are:

  1. What do you need to be ready?
  2. How to position yourself.
  3. What is the difference between health coaching and wellness coaching?
  4. What credentials are needed.


Date: Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Time: 4:00 - 5:00 p.m. Eastern/New York/Toronto time

Fee: No charge (long distance charges may apply)

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Introduction to Coaching Calls:

Join us for a one-hour class that will introduce you to the wonderful career of Life Coaching. We want to share our excitement with you and give you information to help you decide if life coaching is for you!

Fee: No charge. (Long distance charges may apply).

  • What is Coaching?
  • Origins of Coaching
  • What Research Says Good Coaches Do
  • Current Status of Coaching
  • Why is Coaching Becoming So Popular and Needed Now?
  • Benefits of Adding Coaching to Your Business
  • Helping Professional to Coach: 7 Success Factors
  • Some Similarities and Differences Between Coaching and Therapy
  • Questions and Answers


April 3rd: REGISTER

April 17th : REGISTER

Times: 2:00 p.m. Eastern/New York/Toronto time


Free Coach Referral Service for CLCs
ILCT provides a listing of Certified Life Coaches and graduates of our Accredited Coach Training Program. These are coaches who have completed at least 60 to 130 hours of coach training. This is a value-added service for those ILCT students who have reached this high level of excellence!

This list is being offered as a free service to assist individuals in identifying and selecting coaches best suited for their particular need.

If you have your Certified Life Coach credential, and have not registered — Sign up now


News & Features

Developing a Life Coaching Practice by Dr. Patrick Williams
From Innovations in Clinical Practice: A 21st Century Sourcebook Section IV: Community Interventions
Edited by Jeffery B. Allen, PhD, ABPP-CN, Eve M. Wolf, PhD, Leon VandeCreek, PhD, ABPP

Innovations in Clinical Practice: A 21st Century Sourcebook

Patrick Williams addresses the development and marketing of a life coaching practice. Dr. Williams highlights the importance of developing entrepreneurial skills, and provides simple strategies for marketing. He addresses the apprehension experienced by many psychologists when they approach the concept of marketing their skills. He states that the relational and listening skills that psychologists utilize in therapy can be very helpful in disseminating information about a coaching practice.

He provides a series of useful steps for marketing one’s practice, utilizes a coaching metaphor, and suggests that clinicians become accustomed to being called "life coach" or "business coach" as opposed to "doctor." The importance of developing a target niche is addressed, and examples of niches are provided in this regard.

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Teleclass for ICF Members: Transpersonal Coaching: Making the Unconscious Conscious
with Dr. Patrick Williams and Sir John Whitmore

Transpersonal Psychology, born of the 1970s but influenced from the theories and practices of Jung, Assagioli, Maslow, and many others has found a home in Transpersonal approaches to Life Coaching.  Total Life Coaching is the operating system of all coaching because we are working with whole human beings. Transpersonal approaches include methods and language to explore and discover new learning for the coaching client in the areas of Body, Brain and Being. (Or Mind, Body, Spirit).  The spiritual element is sometimes difficult to discuss or to apply in coaching, but Dr. Williams (who received his doctorate in Transpersonal Psychology in 1977) and Sir John Whitmore, will cite research, theories and practical applications to add the transpersonal approach to your coaching toolkit.

Today, more than ever, coaching is attracting clients who are willing and desirous to engage in deeper conversations beyond their business success or leadership skills. Behind those "door openers" are the depth of transpersonal, whole person, deep conversations of meaning, purpose, and spirituality.

Dr. Williams and Sir John Whitmore will present brief summaries of key theorists of transpersonal psychology and their connection to coaching today. In addition, attendees will learn of some techniques described and referenced that they can immediately use with coaching clients.

Transpersonal coaching is at the cutting edge and now more than ever vitally needed by business, individuals and humanity if we are to build a world we wish to live and work in that is mutually sustainable and beneficial to us all. 

When coaches, leaders and managers are familiar with the transpersonal dimension in themselves and the methods of addressing it in others, their capacity to help others is greatly enhanced. Even the most pragmatic of coaching interventions, such as daily task performance, is enhanced if the coach holds a transpersonal perspective. While we as coaches hopefully work from the coach's agenda, we should never forget that we provide the container or the context for the coaching, so we do influence the process anyway, whether we choose to or not. Being conscious of how we influence the coaching relationship is crucial, both ethically and for maximum effectiveness. 

A range of transpersonal tools and techniques are invaluable in helping people to reach the higher levels of performance, to fulfil their potential, and especially to achieve in leadership positions. Transpersonal coaching is an empowering process which helps clients discover the power and effectiveness of who they really are. This core, source of our deepest values and qualities, is a well-spring of real strength, creativity and actualization. Operating from this core enables clients to connect with their staff, the vision of the organization and the global context fully and effectively.

ICF members - click here to log in and get the bridge number (you will need to scroll down to April 23rd for the link)


Relationship Coaching with Couples Informational Call

Join ILCT faculty member, Lisa Kramer, MSW, PCC for an introduction to relationship coaching with couples.  Relationship coaching, a growing niche in the coaching profession, assists couples in creating extraordinary relationships.  Whether you have worked with couples in the past or you are just curious to learn more about relationship coaching, this call will give you an overview of the eight-week course Relationship Coaching with Couples that begins on Monday, April 20th at 1:00 p.m. Eastern.

This advanced course is also the first in a two-part series for coaches interested in receiving a Relationship Coaching Specialist certificate. The second course, The Relationship Coaching Skills Practicum follows this course and begins in June.

Here’s what previous participants have to say about the course:

"Lisa Kramer's teleclass on Relationship Coaching for Couples is the most comprehensive and well-designed class I've ever taken as a coach.  She models excellence in coaching while she is facilitating the class.  Her supporting materials, including the workbook she wrote along with handouts to give clients, are superb.  Equally important, the field works assignments she mandates as part of the class truly helped me quite rapidly build competence in coaching couples.  Learning from Lisa has been one of my best coaching investments." --Gail Kauranen Jones, personal and business coach specializing in transition.

“Lisa Kramer is a gifted teacher and facilitator.  I was fortunate  enough to participate in her Relationship Coaching class  and received great instruction, motivation and  exemplary curriculum.  She is caring, organized and always available to her students.  I feel well groomed and prepared to coach couples in working toward the "relationship of their dreams."  This is a "must course" for those hoping to add Relationship Coaching to their coaching repertoire.” --Lori Berkman, Legacy Life Coaching

Date: Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Time: 3:00 p.m. (60 minute call) Eastern/New York, Toronto time

Fee: No charge (some long distance charges may apply).

REGISTER NOW!


How to Become Certified

Join Edwina Adams, ILCT's Director of Operations for a one hour teleconference to learn more about how ILCT’s program can help you achieve your professional dreams.

Topics to be discussed include:

  • Is a credential necessary?
  • CLC, ACC, PCC, and MCC – what do they all mean?
  • What are the requirements to become a Certified Life Coach [CLC]?
  • What are the requirements to become a Associate Certified Coach [ACC]?
  • What are the requirements to become a Professional Certified Coach [PCC]?
  • What are the requirements to become a Master Certified Coach [MCC]?
  • Differences between ACTP and Portfolio approaches

Date: Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Time: 7:00 p.m. (60 minute call) Eastern/New York, Toronto time, which is

Fee: No charge (some long distance charges may apply).

REGISTER NOW!


Christian Coaches Network eSummit 2009: Thriving in an Economic Recession

You are invited to attend eleven virtual sessions (telebridge and webinar) from seasoned coaches and marketing specialists on topics that will help you grow your business and maximize your marketing efforts.

Dates: May 6, 7 & 8
Time: 10am to 2pm Eastern (four consecutive 45-minute sessions a day)

Early bird registration ends April 8th.

Click to learn more / register.

A special pre-session event has been scheduled for April 7th at 5:00pm EST. This is a great change to "meet" a few of the session presenters and get a "taste" of what to expect at the eSummit. The pre-session is free and you only need a phone to participate. Call: 641.715.3630, Access: 215345#


In Case You Missed It: Becoming a Consciously Competent Coach

Listen as Dr. Patrick Williams, President and CEO of the Institute for Life Coach Training and Sara Duiven, Marketing Manager of CPH & Associates discuss Becoming a Consciously Competent Coach.

During this 60-minute conference call Pat and Sara covered the the points below, and fielded specific questions submitted during registration:

  1. What skills sets are needed to be a qualified coach?
  2. What skill sets are needed to be an ethical coach?

Listen to a recording of this call


Expand Your Business! Deepen Your Coaching Skills!
Register For Upcoming Classes at ILCT

NOTE: Flexible payment plans are available. For details call 972-861-1915.

APRIL 2009
1st Wellness Inventory Certification Training
7th Creating a Referral Based Coaching Business
8th Research for Coaches
8th Executive Coaching and Development (Christian Program)
9th Advanced Skills Practicum
13th

The ICF Core Competency Class & Assessment Process

20th Relationship Coaching with Couples     (FREE Informational call April 7th)
20th Relationship Coach Specialist (RCS) Certificate Courses
20th Foundational Coach Training
21st Foundational Coach Training
29th Business Planning & Development for Service Professionals
30th Group Coaching & Teleclass Leading (Christian Program)
MAY 2009
5th Practice Made Perfect: Marketing Your Coaching Business For Maximum Success
5th

The ICF Core Competency Class & Assessment Process

7th Group Coaching
7th Advanced Skills Practicum (Christian Program)
11th Ethics, Risk Management and Professional Issues
11th Advanced Skills Practicum (Christian Program)
19th Foundational Coach Training
JUNE 2009
4th Practice Made Perfect: Marketing Your Coaching Business For Maximum Success
9th Creating a Referral Based Coaching Business
9th Foundational Coach Training (Christian Program)
10th Advanced Skills Practicum
15th Relationship Coach Coach Specialist (RCS) Certificate
22nd Relationship Coaching Coaching Skills Practicum
22nd Foundational Coach Training
JULY 2009
2nd Group Coaching
15th Ethics, Risk Management & Professional Issues (Christian Program)
16th Group Coaching & Teleclass Leading (Christian Program)
AUGUST 2009
4th Creating a Referral Based Coaching Business
18th Foundational Coach Training
SEPTEMBER 2009
8th

The ICF Core Competency Class & Assessment Process

8th The ICF Core Competency Class & Assessment Process (Christian Program)
8th Practice Made Perfect: Marketing Your Coaching Business For Maximum Success
9th Group Coaching
9th

The ICF Core Competency Class & Assessment Process

9th Wellness Inventory Certification Training
10th Advanced Skills Practicum (Christian Program)
10th Wellness Inventory Certification Training
10th Coaching the Addiction-Recovered Client to Full Potential
14th Ethics, Risk Management and Professional Issues
14th Advanced Skills Practicum (Christian Program)
17th Advanced Skills Practicum
21st Foundational Coach Training
22nd Foundational Coach Training
24th Group Coaching & Teleclass Leading (Christian Program)
28th Foundational Coach Training (Christian Program)
OCTOBER 2009
8th Creating a Referral Based Coaching Business
20th Foundational Coach Training
NOVEMBER 2009
17th Foundational Coach Training
 
Additional classes, details and online registration at our course section. Some schedules may change; check listing or contact Edwina Adams, Administration/Registration, at edwina@lifecoachtraining.com.


Where In The World Is Pat Williams?

July 7th & 8th
Orlando, FL
13th Annual Smart Marriages Pre Conference Institutes
Life Coaching With Couples: The NEW Profession
Pat Williams, Ed.D. & Mike Lillibridge, Ph.D.

Learn the basics of Life Coaching, the PEOPLEMAP personalities assessment, and the skills to coach couples to create a more fulfilling relationship. Coach couples to overcome the gap between where they are and where they want to be. Includes the Peoplemap Personality Assessment, demonstration, skills practice, and practice-building tips.


What Pat Recommends

Emotional Intelligence Coaching by Stephen Neale, Lisa Spencer-Arnell, Liz Wilson

Emotional Intelligence Coaching examines how emotions and habits can impact performance. Emotional intelligence can help coaches recognize how attitudes -- both their own and their clients' -- prevent people from reaching their potential and how to replace them with more useful attitudes, feelings and thoughts. The authors present the various models and tools that coaches can use to help them become more emotionally intelligent when coaching.

The book explains the basic principles of emotional intelligence and how these relate to coaching for performance. It includes practical activities for coaching, as well as interviews with coaches who use emotional intelligence as part of their coaching strategy.


Becoming A Professional Life Coach

Total Life Coaching: 50+ Life Lessons, Skills, and Techniques to Enhance Your Practice...and Your Life by Dr. Patrick Williams MCC, Dr. Lloyd J. Thomas

Life coaching is more than a collection of techniques and skills. It is more than something you do. Life coaching reflects who you are-it is your authentic being in action. Readers of Pat Williams's and Deborah Davis's book, Therapist as Life Coach, know Pat to be a gifted life coach and passionate teacher. Here Pat and psychologist/colleague and writer of more than 1600 newspaper columns, Lloyd J. Thomas, build on this earlier book and share a unique insight into the coaching process, which shows you precisely how to enhance your professional practices through practical and effective life coaching. It also empowers you to change your own lives through use of the practical information and philosophy presented here.

Total Life Coaching is organized into a series of 52 life lessons, and is designed to be either read cover-to-cover or dipped into, as needed, for assistance when conducting a coaching session. Keeping life's processes on the "message and lesson" level makes living and life coaching much easier and more enjoyable. Total Life Coaching guides you step-by-step through the complex process of learning and coaching these important lessons.

Review:
Thank you, Pat Williams, for writing Total Life Coaching. It is a wonderful resource book that every coach should have at their fingertips, whether they have been coaching one year or many years. It is not just one of the many books on general coaching philosophy and techniques. Total Life Coaching is written with a “how to” approach. It is organized into a wide rage of categories of coaching topics. Each category contains a rich menu of information, exercises, creative coaching approaches, and examples of coaching conversations. I know I will be using the wisdom of
Total Life Coaching for every client I have. Diana Kilinski, LPC, CEAP, Business and Life Coach, Savvy Life Skills, LLC


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