Tomorrow's
Life Coach
Volume 8 Issue 3 – March, 2009
In This Issue:
Pat's
Ponderings ~ Patrick Williams, Ed.D.,
MCC
- Monthly
- News & Features
- Upcoming Classes at ILCT
- Where in the World is Pat
Williams?
- What Pat Recommends - StrengthsFinder
2.0 by Tom Rath and Christian Coaching by Gary R. Collins
Tomorrow's Life Coach (TLC) is a monthly online
journal from the Institute for Life Coach Training
(ILCT) that nourishes the intellect, intuition
and inspiration of the personal and business
coaching community.
Pat's Ponderings - Getting
Paid Our Worth as Coaches
Money is a topic most people are not comfortable
talking about, at least not in public. Because
of this, few people are good at asking for help
with making money, creating new sources of money,
and especially with making money from doing what
we love. This is a problem. In order for us to
grow a profitable and satisfying coaching business,
it is beneficial to speak to others who have already
created a successful practice. Learning from those
who have already done the work can save us a lot
of time and effort.
If we are struggling to make ends meet, it is
not likely that we are enjoying what we do as
much as we should, nor are we able to give ourselves
fully to clients. But this need not be the case,
even in these tough economic times. We can learn
how to market ourselves, and there are no failures
in these efforts. All attempts to generate business,
or network, or change our model are just experiments
and they get results—success or failure.
We can learn from both, just as our clients do.
We have the skills to help people through these
challenging times, and to create a relationship
that rewards both the coach and the coached.
A lot of people are out of work these days, with
unemployment (as of January, 2009) at a 27-year
high of 11.6 million people. These certainly
are alarming numbers, but they also reveal an
opportunity for coaches to help people redesign
their lives around work that is more satisfying.
Coaches should view the current economy as a chance
to prove the value of coaching to assist clients
in career redesign, staying focused, and looking
for opportunities they are better suited for .
. . like creating a new career or business. Many
executives who have been downsized, or offered
early retirement sometimes have outplacement counseling
(coaching) paid for for 3-6 months by their company.
That is how I filled my practice in 1999 when
a major company in my town was closing its operations.
There is a great opportunity right now to expand
the public awareness of coaching, and with that
awareness we increase our potential client base.
However, in this current market, coaches may have
to consider making some hard adjustments, such
as reducing their fees, doing more group-coaching,
or finding other creative ways to bring in new
clients. For example, we can partner with folks
from other disciplines such as fitness training,
corporate head hunters, accountants, lawyers,
or other venues where the partnership and cross-referrals
could be beneficial to both parties. It might
also be useful to partner with other coaches in
your area to market your services together in
the print media, on the radio, or through making
yourselves available to newspapers, radio shows,
and television stations to talk about coaching
as a way to assist people though the current economic
climate.
It's also possible, at least for a short
time, to redirect one's coaching efforts
toward the corporate world, where streamlining,
efficiency, and corporate culture are all on the
table for redefinition as businesses try to minimize
losses and increase returns. According to the
Harvard Business Review, corporate coaches have
a median income of $500 an hour. Even better
for the coaches, the typical relationship in corporate
coaching lasts between seven to twelve months.
One way to create this type of business without
having to become a fully corporate coach is to
become a content coach.
The content coach is becoming more common. Companies
plowing new ground by going into foreign countries
are finding coaches with extensive experience
in international operations. While some would
call this a consulting relationship, there are
several differences. The coaches are not prescribing
answers nor are they making their conclusions
public. Most of the interaction is done in the
background and the conversations are completely
between the coach and the leader. The leader is
still the one who must make the decision and take
the accountability. The process is often one of
challenging thought process and testing assumptions.
These opportunities are not limited to international
operations. Content coaches provide one-on-one
assistance to team leaders "on specific
content areas in which they need assistance, such
as marketing, finance or negotiations."
Certainly, the level of income mentioned above
isn't available to all of
us, and maybe we don't possess the appropriate
skill set, anyway. What then?
The Meaning of Money
Rethinking how we
relate to money can be a huge eye-opener for some
of us and lead us in new directions. Where money
is concerned, are you an optimist (always trying
to see bright side of a situation) or a pessimist
(generally seeing the negatives in any situation)?
Chances are good that you are an optimist. Researchers
have found that optimists are more likely to embrace
occupations with "ambiguous
returns" and to "naturally choose
entrepreneurship." Coaching is certainly
an entrepreneurial occupation, and as we all have
learned at one time or another, the returns fluctuate
between a trickle and a flood.
Keeping with that liquid metaphor, currency as
the word we use for money derives from a Latin
word that means to run or flow, or more specifically,
a "'condition of flowing,' from L. "currens, ppr.
of currere, to run." (see current); the sense
of a flow or course extended 1699 (by John Locke)
to 'circulation of money'". In this sense, money
can be considered a symbol of the life energy
we receive and the life energy we give when we
provide the service of coaching to others. Just
as a river must keep flowing—else it gets
clogged and stagnates—it is circulation
that keeps it vital and flowing. If our intention
is to hold onto money and hoard it, we are stopping
its circulation and that of our life energy as
well. This way of seeing money moves beyond the
economic idea of money as a tool of commerce and
toward a more holistic vision of currency, the
flow of energy.
Lack of Sales & Marketing Experience and
Desire
Most coaches deplore selling and marketing, especially selling themselves. They
got into coaching to serve and help people reach their goals and
dreams. They didn't realize that building and sustaining a
business (and thus making money) has more to do with their ability
to market and sell. "There is a direct correlation between
the most financially successful coaches and those that embrace sales
and marketing," Michael Charest (of Business
Growth Solutions)
says.
The (Subconscious) Belief That Making Money
by Coaching is Bad
Coaches are servers, healers, helpers, teachers. By virtue
of being in this profession, money is too often a very
low priority for coaches. And worse off, there are
many coaches who cannot get past the fact that making money and being
of service are not at odds with each another. We
must overcome deep-seeded beliefs about not being worthy to earn
a great living or that somehow it's noble to be broke. We
must embrace the fact that as the quantity and quality of our coaching
increases, so does our income, which is a good thing!
We can combine our general sense of optimism
with a more holistic relationship to money to
generate new ideas and greater expression in how
we navigate the turbulence in our culture. There
is more to optimism, however, than the clichés
about the law of attraction. A
lot of folks talk about the principle of attraction…but
the last six letters are ACTION. Coaches must
do the things that will attract new clients. We
cannot simply wish for clients or intend that
they will show up. This is where the idea of flow
comes in again, when the coach gets in the flow
of meeting people, being visible, requesting referrals,
being specific about marketing, or focusing our
efforts—only then will opportunities come
our way. Only then will we earn what we are worth
as coaches, as human beings.
Pat
Patrick Williams Ed.D., MCC
Chief Energizing Officer, ILCT
Department Chair, Professional Coaching, International University
of Professional Studies
Author: Becoming
a Professional Life Coach. Therapist
as Life Coach, Total
Life Coaching,
Law and Ethics in Coaching
Recipient of Global Visionary Fellowship for Non Profit www.CoachingTheGlobalVillage.org
Biography
Monthly
ILCT-CPH Teleconference
- Becoming a Consciously Competent Coach
Please join Dr. Patrick Williams, President and
CEO of the Institute for Life Coach Training,
author of Law
and Ethics in Coaching, and Sara Duiven, Marketing
Manager of CPH & Associates on
March 18th for a discussion focused on Becoming
a Consciously Competent Coach.
During this 60-minute conference call Pat and
Sara will be discussing the the points below, plus
fielding specific questions submitted during registration:
- What skills sets are needed to be a qualified
coach?
- What skill sets are needed to be an ethical
coach?
Date: Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Time: 3:00 p.m. Eastern/New York/Toronto
time
Fee: no charge (long
distance charges may apply)
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NOW
Pat's Coaching Forum - A New Direction for Health Care
Join Dr. Patrick Williams and Jim Strohecker, CEO and Co-founder of HealthWorld Online (www.healthy.net) to learn more about coaching and New Opportunities for Health and Wellness Coaching based on the U.S. Administration's new directions in health care.
The topics to be discussed are:
- What do you need to be ready?
- How to position yourself.
- What is the difference between health coaching and wellness coaching?
- What credentials are needed.
Date: Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Time: 4:00 - 5:00 p.m. Eastern/New York/Toronto time
Fee: No charge (long distance charges may apply)
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- What is Coaching?
- Origins of Coaching
- What Research Says Good Coaches
Do
- Current Status of Coaching
- Why is Coaching Becoming
So Popular and Needed Now?
- Benefits of Adding Coaching
to Your Business
- Helping Professional to Coach:
7 Success Factors
- Some Similarities and Differences
Between Coaching and Therapy
- Questions and Answers
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News & Features
Strength in Numbers: Creating high-performance teams
means focusing on shared goals
By Patrick Williams Ed.D., MCC
(reprinted with permission of Choice Magazine, www.choice-online.com)
Teams are the most common business unit for high
performance. Although the word "team" gets
used loosely and not always appropriately, there
is universal acceptance that teams create opportunities
for high-performance results. As coaches, we can
be highly instrumental in team-building and defining
a team’s direction.
True teamwork represents a set of values that
promote individual and collective performance.
Effective teams value listening and communicating,
sharing work responsibilities, providing support – and
they can even make work more social and enjoyable.
Jon R. Katzenbach and Douglas K. Smith (The
Wisdom of Teams, Teams at the Top)
provide the clearest definition of teams: A
team is a small number of people with complementary
skills who are committed to a common purpose,
performance goals, and an approach for which
they hold themselves mutually accountable.
The essence of a team is common commitment. Without
it, work groups are just collections of individuals
working together but separately. A coach’s
goal is to help facilitate teamwork and to generate
a common goal among team members.
Work & Social Needs
Working together towards a shared goal can create social ties and
enjoyment – important factors that contribute to high achievement.
The Hawthorne Studies in the 1930s revealed that people work better
together when they are allowed to socially interact with one another
and are given supportive attention.
The Hawthorne Studies have importance for executives
interested in increasing results without command
and control tactics:
- Pay attention to people and their teams;
- Express genuine interest in them;
- Give them opportunities for social interaction;
- Provide frequent feedback; then
- Stand back and let them perform.
This is not to say that management should leave
teams alone. Teams left on their own can become
confused. Management is responsible for clarifying
the challenge for the team, and for being flexible
enough to leave the team to develop commitment
to purpose, sets of specific goals, timing, and
work approach.
Meaning & Emotional Energy
The best teams invest considerable effort in exploring, shaping,
and agreeing on a purpose that belongs to them both individually
and collectively. Coaches can assist teams in developing a common
purpose that supports both individual effort and team results.
The best teams also take their common purpose and translate it
into specific performance goals.
These goals relate to the common purpose and
build on each other, moving the team forward towards
achievement and creating powerfully motivating
steps to success. The achievement of goals along
the way builds momentum, fosters trust among members,
and helps maintain continued commitment.
Specific performance goals may be different for
each group, but the importance of helping a team
define its goals is immense. Transforming broad
directives into specific goals is a process that
provides first steps for forming the identity
and purpose of the team. As the team progresses
with small wins, they reaffirm their shared commitment.
Clarity & Focus . . . Read
the full article.
Consciousness Relationship Summit
March 30-April 3rd, 2009
The Conscious Relationship Summit is the first
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on creating the awareness and inspiring the action
needed to create conscious relationships in all
areas of life.
We all want to love and be loved; to create a
better world in which we can exist in harmony
and peace; yet we need more than good intentions;
we need to acquire the knowledge and skills to
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Attend this 5-day virtual conference from the
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- 35 outstanding programs over 5 days
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- Bonus Package donated by presenters and sponsors
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Proceeds benefit international
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View
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In Case You Missed These Calls:
Business Insurance
Needs with
Dr. Patrick Williams and Sara Duiven, Marketing
Manager, CPH & Associates
During this 60-minute call, Pat and Sara discussed
the points below and fielded questions asked by
participants during registration:
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What kinds of insurance coverage do you
need when starting up a private coaching or
mental health practice?
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What is the difference
between Professional Liability and General
Liability?
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Things to think about when
credentialing on insurance panels,
or contracting with agencies.
Listen
to a recording of this call
A New Direction for Health Care with Dr.
Patrick Williams and Jim Strohecker, CEO and Co-founder
of HealthWorld Online (www.healthy.net).
The topics discussed were:
- The growing trend of health professionals
and mental health professionals transitioning
to he coaching profession.
- The trend of health professionals learning
to be more coach-like in the delivery of traditional
health care.
- How is coaching currently impacting the the
health care system? How might coaching transform
the health care of the future?
- Live Testimony on 2/26/09 before the
Committee on Health, Education, Labor, and Pensions on Integrative
Care: A Pathway to a Healthier Nation, with
information on wellness and coaching,
which can be reviewed by going to: http://help.senate.gov/Hearings/2009_02_26/2009_02_26.html
Listen
to a recording of this call
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Where In The World Is Pat
Williams?
July 7th & 8th
Orlando, FL
13th
Annual Smart Marriages Pre Conference Institutes
Life Coaching With Couples: The NEW Profession
Pat Williams, Ed.D. & Mike Lillibridge, Ph.D.
Learn the basics of Life Coaching, the PEOPLEMAP
personalities assessment, and the skills to coach
couples to create a more fulfilling relationship.
Coach couples to overcome the gap between where
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Peoplemap Personality Assessment, demonstration,
skills practice, and practice-building tips.
What Pat Recommends
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StrengthsFinder 2.0: A New and Upgraded Edition of the Online Test from Gallup's Now, Discover Your Strengths by Tom Rath
In its latest national bestseller, StrengthsFinder 2.0, Gallup unveils the new and improved version of its popular assessment, language of 34 themes, and much more. While you can read this book in one sitting, you'll use it as a reference for decades.
Loaded with hundreds of strategies for applying your strengths, this new book and accompanying website will change the way you look at yourself -- and the world around you -- forever. |
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Christian Coaching: Helping Others Turn Potential into Reality
by Gary R. Collins
Dr. Gary R. Collins has taken the successful principles of coaching and given them a God-centered application for our lives and the church. Through stories, insights, and interviews with influential coaches, Collins gives us a model of Christian coaching that inspires vision, passion, and a sense of purpose.
Christian Coaching demonstrates the characteristics of an effective coach, how to incorporate those characteristics into one’s life, and how to coach and lead others with the same leadership style Jesus demonstrated: servant leadership.
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Becoming
a Professional Life Coach: Lessons from
the Institute for Life Coach Training by
Dr. Patrick Williams & Diane S. Menendez
Beginning with a brief history of the
foundations of coaching and its future
trajectory, Becoming a Professional
Life Coach takes readers step-by-step
through the coaching process, covering
all the crucial ideas and strategies for
being an effective, successful life coach.
- Listening to, versus listening for,
versus listening with;
- Establishing a client's focus;
- Giving honest feedback and observation;
- Formulating first coaching conversations;
- Asking powerful, eliciting questions;
- Understanding human developmental
issues;
- Reframing a client's perspective;
- Enacting change within clients;
- Helping clients to identify and fulfill
core values, and much, much more.
From Resource Reviews
- With Ruth Harper:
The word "coaching" is
now a buzzword among helping
professionals, yet
many may not fully
comprehend this
trend. "Coaching is
partnering with
clients in a thought provoking
and creative process that
inspires them to maximize their personal
and professional potential," according
to the International Coach Federation,
an organization that boasts more than
15,000 members worldwide.
Patrick Williams and Diane
Menendez have written a seminal work on
this subject with Becoming
a Professional Life Coach. Williams,
founder of the Institute for Life Coach
training, is a
Master Certified Coach as well as an
author of the paradigm-shifting Therapist
as Life Coach. Menendez works for two
coaching organizations: Leadership
Mastery Coaching and Convergys Global
Talent Development. She, too, is a
Master Certified Coach.
The question foremost
on most readers' minds is likely to be what, specifically,
is the difference between therapy
and coaching? One major difference is
emphasis, the authors explain. While
psychotherapy often focuses on the past,
coaching directs clients to create and
design
their futures.
Critics and skeptics may relegate coaching
to the realm of fads. These authors,
however, argue that coaching is both
a
viable career and a bona fide profession
in the 21st century. As they explain,
"Coaches are now in schools, probation
departments, churches, nonprofit corporations
and other community agencies." Click
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